Creating a working relationship, with your MAN.
Add fuel to a beautiful fire!
Why even be in a relationship?
In today’s world, everything that you need can be provided to you…by yourself. That doesn’t mean literally everything, but if you have some amounts of money, you have a nice lead in providing a life that can bring you happiness. That happiness however, is really fueled by you. Allowing someone to “add fuel to a beautiful fire” opens your life up to new possibilities. These possibilities can be learning new hobbies, or trying new food items, traveling the world, and including someone to deep-dive into these possibilities.
His intentions are an extension of care for you.
When you have a boyfriend or husband, there is a really nice sense of having someone in your corner. You won’t always agree, and as time passes, things may annoy you. You won’t always see eye to eye, and you will bump heads. There will be days that you wish that you could be on a cruise, but your stuck watching an anime show because that is what he wants to watch tonight. With that being said, when a man feels appreciated and respected, he will serve you. That service is the “fuel added to the fire”! Things that you did not know you deserve will be given to you. For example, the bitchy friend that always has those back-handed comments, your man will provide you with a different perspective of why you probably should end that friendship. Or, if you always fold your clothes and don’t hang them in the closet, one day those clothes could be hung after you come back from work. It’s the action behind the intentions. The damaging friend might be someone in your circle, but his advice to end the friendship is to prove to you that your time is valuable. The reason hanging the clothes up is more efficient, is because he notices your rushing to find something to wear in the morning. Having them hung up, might provide you a better visual of wearing clothes you forgot you had! He means well behind those actions, his intentions are an extension of his care for you.
Believing in each other.
When you are in a relationship, you must believe that you want the best for each other. That will be the everlasting fuel in your fiery romance. To know someone is cheering you on, truly wants the best for you, and allows you to BE YOU, is something not to be taken for granted. Remember, he is a human being that needs to be loved, cherished, appreciated, and deserves a face looking back at him that believes in him. Don’t forget to smile, trust me…it is SO worth it!
This really hit me. I love how you show that little things, like hanging clothes or sharing advice, can actually be big acts of care. It’s the everyday stuff that fuels a strong relationship.
I’d love to hear more examples like this, maybe even stories from readers about the small ways their partners show care. Those little moments make a big difference.